October 13th, 2008

The evil and clever Moira continued to abuse poor Ross by disappearing on him at some point. One day on October 13th, 2008
Ross suddenly discovered that his cherished Moira has been around all along as "Nicole" on Ares. Ross is shocked and distraught at this discovery.  Not only has she been hiding from him, but he finds out she's been messing with other guys on Ares. It seems she was conditioning him to be a very faithful e-lover! 

Ross goes around from room to room telling everyone that he's not doing too well due to this.

Someone I knew copied these exchanges in the rooms. I included some of my conversations with this contact... 

(I bolded some of Ross's statements to emphasize, added some comments in italics.)

(Notes in light blue added on 3/14/2010)

(6:59 AM) TekWiz: lol what was that about moira and ross?

(7:00 AM) A squirrel in th:

Ross is quite sad and angry that Moira left him and changed her name:

16:47:19 Ross> hi lydia hun
16:47:35 ĿγđıΛ: hi ross hows u?
16:47:46 Ross> im pretty sad to be honest
16:47:54 Ross> i just found out that nicole is moira
16:48:07 Ross> i found her old ip and its the same

16:48:14 Ross> so i just emailed her
16:48:33 Ross> telling her i know its her and i know whats shes been upto with other guys
16:48:37 ĿγđıΛ: really
16:49:02 ĿγđıΛ: i thought so wen she sed lyly its only moira calls me that
16:49:09 Ross> [мφiгa: ( ]
16:49:10 Ross> [ηicσℓe: (

16:49:13 Ross> yup
16:49:34 Ross> she is so deceitful
16:49:38 ĿγđıΛ: so whys shr doing it
16:49:42 ĿγđıΛ: she
16:49:57 Ross> maybe shes evil

(That's why me and Ross talked so much, we discussed whether Moira had psychological problems or maybe she was just evil. I told him it's almost impossible to tell online if someone doesn't want you to know--they could be acting... He leaned towards saying she is just immature and childish and maybe has psychological problems... I felt that she seemed to know what she was doing and was evil. Here he thinks she might be evil. In fact he calls her "deceitful" which would mean she knows what she is doing.)

Another thing I would like to point out here is that I always thought Moira was much closer and more open with Ross than me, as he was supposedly her "boyfriend" while I was a "friend". So with this in mind I was often quite surprised that he didn't seem to be able to understand her behavior any better than I did. I was extremely shocked when I heard she just dissappeared on him like this because as much as I thought she enjoyed making men suffer I didn't think she would do something like this to Ross who was always so loyal and devoted to her except for a couple of "digressions" where he wanted to take revenge on her for "cheating" on him and messed around with other women on Ares. With this in mind, as I originally said, it's quite impossible to "diagnose" someone who doesn't want to be "diagnosed". My best estimate is whoever Moira is in real life, she or even he, is a highly disturbed individual with a variety of personality problems. She/he is definately not a normal functioning person and very well might already be under professional psychological care.

16:50:23 ĿγđıΛ: must b cos she pm me ages ago she didnt say a thing
16:50:32 Ross> shes obviously got a name for herself in the last 2 weeks
16:50:43 ỊимaтзĢỊz has parted
16:50:58 Ross> like mistress said yesterday ' the room bike

(Funny: "The room bike" means everybody "rides" her!)

16:51:05 ĿγđıΛ: she has cos on gnd ppl are slagging her
16:51:33 Ross> she told me she doesnt cyber with guys
16:51:51 Ross> some guy yesterday said he boned her a couple of times lol

16:52:15 ĿγđıΛ: well mistress knows everybody so she must be right#

(Hahahaha: "boned her a couple of times". Even Ross finds this funny.)

(7:12 AM) A squirrel in th:

18:07:59 สт ≈ǿ ̯͡ ǿั≈ мэσώ hey ma lil bro
18:07:59 สт ≈ǿ ̯͡ ǿั≈ мэσώ lol
18:08:39 สт ≈ǿ ̯͡ ǿั≈ мэσώ how r u and hows ur work?
18:08:52 Ross im not working at the moment hun
18:08:58 Ross and im not doing too good today
18:09:06 Ross i found moira last night in a room

18:09:06 สт ≈ǿ ̯͡ ǿั≈ мэσώ ohh
18:09:23 สт ≈ǿ ̯͡ ǿั≈ мэσώ u sure she was her?
18:09:24 Ross changed her name to ηicσℓe
18:09:33 Ross and shes been messing about with guys it seems

18:09:34 Ross yup
18:09:36 Ross 1 sec

Note: Ross worked from a young age as a mail truck driver but around 2006 he hurt his lower back and has been unable to work. He went back to work for a short while in 2007. However currently he is permanently laid off and is on disablity. This is why he is on Ares 24/7.

18:09:47 Ross [ηicσℓe: (
18:09:59 Ross

18:10:07 สт ≈ǿ ̯͡ ǿั≈ мэσώ wat did she say to u ?
18:10:08 Ross [мφiгa: ( ]
18:10:17 Ross i pm'd her but she didnt speak to me
18:10:22 Ross she left the rooms

18:10:25 สт ≈ǿ ̯͡ ǿั≈ мэσώ omg!
18:10:37 Ross #whowas
18:10:42 Ross #whowas 190.2.97.
18:10:59 Ross #whowas 200.3.

18:11:00 สт ≈ǿ ̯͡ ǿั≈ мэσώ how come she goes to the rooms and leave u like that without sayin anythin!
18:11:06 Ross idk hun

Ross is very efficient in looking in many rooms all the time and copying down IP addresses.
God bless him.

Note that he says he PM'd (Private Message) her but she didn't talk. This is Moira's most powerful weapon. She found that what hurts people most is if she ignores them. When she ignores and doesn't reply you don't know what she's thinking. Ross is scared she won't ever talk to him again. Of course Moira plans to just "torture" him for a while before returning.

Here is another clip:

(8:47 AM) A squirrel in th:

19:21:04 Ross hi demon mate
19:33:00 [мββ]-Đęмǿň> whats up?
19:35:17 Ross nm mate
19:35:31 Ross hows you?
19:39:11 [мββ]-Đęмǿň> im good thanx
19:39:15 [мββ]-Đęмǿň> hows u?
19:39:18 Ross \\arlnk://Chatroom:|The_Mafia's_Playground
19:39:33 Ross not too good mate
19:39:58 Ross found out my so called 'gf ' is a lying cheating bitch
19:40:01 Ross mili or moira
19:40:10 Ross or nicole as shes calling herself now
19:41:24 Ross ηicσℓe

Note that he calls her "my so called 'gf'" This is because she only sometimes says she is his "gf". Then at other times she claims she is "free" and he is not her "bf". This is just another one of her "torture" methods. She NEVER gives Ross the pleasure of feeling secure with her.

The common element in all these clips is that Moira causes Ross a lot of heartache. He is miserable and goes to talk to different people in various rooms telling them all he is not doing too well.

Also I would like to mention that Ross has stated that Moira caused him so much pain that when he used to drive home at night he was scared to return as he didn't "know what she would do next". He has said that he experienced so much pain that eventually he just became "numb" to it. I also understand he drinks a lot and uses drugs like "mushrooms". Maybe that's why he's so abusive, strange, and paranoid.

Remember that we are talking about "Moira", an ONLINE personality which Ross has never seen in real life and not even on a webcam. He only saw a few tiny and  unclear pictures which don't even match and it's hard to tell what this character Moira looks like. She is just someone who types to him on the net. Strange you say? No, her great power comes from her mystery. In Ross's mind she is a goddess. The mind is a curious thing.

The following is some of my conversation about this with my contact:

(7:14 AM) TekWiz: but i told her from the beginning she is only 18 so she needs to think about herself and going to college

I was Moira's friend and thought that an 18 year old girl should not be hanging out in chatrooms but going to college. When I met her she lied saying everywhere she was studying "architecture". Later she stopped saying that. She then said she was working daily in a Vet's office taking care of animals. She used to come online early in the morning from another IP so this may have been true.

But later on when Ross insisted on celebrating her 19th birthday, she kept saying 18/F/Argentina by accident in the rooms, and then she said that she had only turned 17. At that time I wasn't talking with her anymore, BTW. This means she was 16 when I and Ross met her (according to her). She was on Ares all day except for about 4 hours every morning when she said she worked at the Vet's office. But at 16 you'd think she'd be going to school and that would be more than 4 hours. So that raises into question whether Moira is really a young girl at all. She might be much older or maybe not even a girl but a guy. Her voice really didn't sound as that of a young teenage girl. I have a few samples and will post them soon.

(7:14 AM) A squirrel in th: the clue is how easy it is for the girl to say these things
(7:14 AM) A squirrel in th: if its easy
(7:14 AM) A squirrel in th: then she doesnt mean it , end of story
(7:14 AM) A squirrel in th: men shouldnt be this naive esp on res
(7:14 AM) A squirrel in th: *ares
(7:14 AM) A squirrel in th: i know moira, fm the way she talks its as if she doesnt take things seriously

Notice my contact thinks Moira doesn't talk as if she takes things seriously. One thing is for sure, she definately doesn't take people she meets online seriously. This is not uncommon in the Ares chat community. I've seen many chatters state that they don't take any of it seriously as "it's all words on the screen." In other words they think the people they are talking with are not genuine--that they are acting out fake personalities, and should not be taken seriously. This in turn means they can abuse them, play with their feeling, and generally treat them with no respect as they are not true human beings. No wonder there have been several online-abuse related suicides reported in the media. In fact I know of at least two adult females (in their 30's and 40's) who were close to suicide. One had attempted it and the other was thinking of it. Both suffered "broken hearts" due to men who "played with their feelings"

Ross had actually said he had tried to commit suicide at age 14. It is not impossible to entertain the possiblity that Moira might actually drive him to commit suicide at some point.  The risk seems to be there.

(7:15 AM) TekWiz: Well I didn't really think she meant it
(7:15 AM) TekWiz: I was being just really nice to her
(7:15 AM) TekWiz: What I understood is that it was just fantasy
(7:15 AM) TekWiz: i was kind of surprised when in private she asked about "marry in real"
(7:16 AM) TekWiz: I didn't know how to take that
(7:16 AM) TekWiz: I didn't take it seriously
(7:16 AM) TekWiz: i thought it was part of the fantasy game
(7:16 AM) TekWiz: In fact moira said more than once that it's really all fun fantasy
(7:16 AM) TekWiz: But ross decided it must be more than that
(7:17 AM) TekWiz: and moira also told him a few times it can't ever be "Real"
(7:17 AM) TekWiz: but she dropped enough "hints" to make him wonder
(7:17 AM) TekWiz: he tought he just had to get "through to her"
(7:17 AM) TekWiz: to convince her he is serious about her

That's Ross's problem. He thinks he is smarter than everybody and he's stubborn. He has a "brick head". He convinced himself that "nobody would spend so much time in rooms unless they were looking to fall in love with someone for real and that Moira must be looking". This is of course a big mistake on his part. Moira has stated several times she is only on Ares to "escape from her hard life." She called it "Fantasy Island".

To be fair he is 30 years old and he is not of the "Internet generation" so he approaches the online community with an old mindset. He just can't get his head around the idea that some people go online to enjoy an anonymous, "virtual" life where they can act in a way they would never act in real life. It didn't matter what Moira kept telling him. On the other hand, in order for Moira to get the best experience of an online fantasy she also wanted her "victims" to think she is serious about real life. But she knew that this is really immoral, so that bothered her somewhat from what she told me. The result was that her message was unclear, and Ross being so eager for her to be real preferred to believe she was real. Ross only hears what he wants to hear.

(7:18 AM) TekWiz: I got rid of her months ago
(7:18 AM) TekWiz: But what really bothers me is that ross hates me so much when i was trying to hard to help him and be his friend
(7:19 AM) TekWiz: she really did a job on him
(7:19 AM) TekWiz: she made him pretty bitter and hateful
(7:19 AM) TekWiz: she should sit in jail for what she did to him

Above I express my anger at Moira for causing Ross all this pain. I am very dissapointed that he seems to hate me due to her.

(7:19 AM) A squirrel in th: oh but u see, first u think ooh she's just being nice but it sticks
(7:20 AM) A squirrel in th: this kinda thing floats on ure mind
(7:20 AM) A squirrel in th: see she's just looking for
(7:20 AM) A squirrel in th: how easy guys are
(7:20 AM) A squirrel in th: what do u mean
(7:20 AM) A squirrel in th: what kinda hints
(7:20 AM) A squirrel in th: well maybe he sees u as competition
(7:20 AM) A squirrel in th: or
(7:20 AM) A squirrel in th: maybe he thinks if it wasnt for u
(7:21 AM) A squirrel in th: he'd be free of this mess
(7:21 AM) A squirrel in th: yeah he seems to be in bad shape

My contact seems to have "street sense" and explains how Ross is easy prey for Moira. She says it's easy for Moira to get into Ross's mind, and he can't clear his mind of her.










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